HITCH (2006)

Directed by: Andy Tennant
Written by: Kevin Bisch
Studio: Columbia Pictures
Starring: Will Smith, Kevin James, Eva Mendes
Rated: PG-13

About the film:
The “date doctor” has helped countless men woo the ladies of their dreams but he has problems when it comes to taking his own medicine. Even as he helps his latest client win a seemingly unattainable girl, his own pursuit of and attractive journalist seems to be running aground.

Movie Quote:
“Ninety percent of what you're saying isn't coming out of your mouth.”
Hitch (Will Smith) in Hitch (2006)

Bible Quote:
“Because our gospel came to you not simply with words, but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and with deep conviction. You know how we lived among you for your sake.”
1 Thessalonians 1:5 (KJV)


Commentary:
When the “date doctor” gives wise counsel to his client, he is, in essence, restating something the Apostle Paul once taught the believers of Thessalonica. As the saying goes, 'talk is cheap.' Unfortunately, the cost of listening to and following cheap talk can be very dear indeed.

Eloquence is not nor has it ever been a very good reflection of character. The quality of a man is best judged by his actions, not his words. Choose a prominent spokesman who later became embroiled with an ethical or moral scandal (and sadly, there are plenty to choose from.) Try to reconcile the things he or she publicly said with the things he or she privately did. Which paints a more accurate picture of the person?

How a man or woman conducts himself (publicly, privately, in any situation) speaks far more loudly than a thousand speeches on the subject. When Christ called us to be “lights in this world,” he challenged us to live in this world according to his teachings – not just give lip service to them. Our lights shine only when we practice what we preach.

Questions to consider while watching the film:
1. How do you view the “service” Hitch provides to the men who hire him? Is it a form of deception as some characters claim? Why or why not?
2. What is the main lesson we, as Christians, can draw from the film as we go through the dating process?